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Re: Hanging out, down the street JustStunned #2330571 03/18/13 02:59 AM
Joined: Mar 2011 Posts: 4,866 Likes: 1 Canoe'k-land ~ ~ kd ~ Member
~ kd ~ Member ~ Joined: Mar 2011 Posts: 4,866 Likes: 1 Canoe'k-land	A mastiff, a chihuahua and a puggle... lol... that's a motley crew! Sounds like you are doing great, JS. Originally Posted By: JustStunned And yes alarm bells were going off in my head warning me I was stepping into rescuer territory. The difference here is I have no expectations. I was able to help, so I did, and then I moved on. This is a very important distinction. I sometimes struggle with whether I rescue people I care about, still. The first part is the request: When the request comes, are we emotionally attached to the request and anxiously re-adjust our lives in order to accommodate the request? The other part is the outcome: Before or after the request and support, do we have expectations? The most difficult parts of these types of situations is our emotional bond with our loved ones not being part of our decision making process. Keep on keeping on.

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Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	08/17/12 05:21 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	Rick1963	08/17/12 10:57 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	08/19/12 01:49 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	kml	08/20/12 09:54 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	kml	08/20/12 10:30 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	08/21/12 01:20 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	SunFunOne	08/21/12 01:31 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	08/21/12 02:38 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	SunFunOne	08/21/12 02:43 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	kml	08/21/12 02:44 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	08/27/12 08:56 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	09/05/12 05:20 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	09/06/12 04:53 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	Rick1963	09/07/12 12:03 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	09/11/12 07:08 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	09/17/12 05:38 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	09/24/12 04:59 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	~ kd ~	09/25/12 02:45 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	09/25/12 05:45 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	Rick1963	09/25/12 07:34 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	WenikiTiki	09/26/12 12:29 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	Rick1963	09/26/12 01:04 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	09/26/12 04:06 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	WenikiTiki	09/27/12 07:53 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	needgrace	09/29/12 03:00 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	10/02/12 04:55 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	10/15/12 05:44 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	10/18/12 08:37 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	Rick1963	10/19/12 01:03 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	10/19/12 05:12 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	Rick1963	10/19/12 06:03 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	10/19/12 08:12 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	kml	10/20/12 12:13 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	kml	10/20/12 12:13 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	10/22/12 04:21 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	11/01/12 05:51 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	jbnati	11/08/12 07:26 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	11/09/12 06:43 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	gunny	11/11/12 10:15 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	11/16/12 06:23 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	11/19/12 04:50 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	11/21/12 07:36 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	gunny	11/22/12 01:16 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	12/19/12 02:34 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	12/23/12 01:55 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	12/26/12 06:02 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	Valeska19	12/26/12 08:58 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	needgrace	12/27/12 05:20 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	01/02/13 09:57 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	01/07/13 05:47 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	02/11/13 07:12 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	needgrace	02/14/13 03:59 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	Valeska19	02/18/13 06:15 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	02/18/13 06:51 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	Valeska19	02/18/13 07:30 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	02/19/13 10:21 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	subguy	02/20/13 01:53 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	BeingMe	02/28/13 11:38 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	03/17/13 07:03 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	~ kd ~	03/18/13 02:59 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	04/14/13 03:29 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	04/29/13 05:21 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	gunny	04/29/13 05:26 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	needgrace	04/30/13 02:36 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	Valeska19	05/07/13 05:35 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	BeingMe	05/10/13 07:01 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	05/11/13 12:25 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	05/15/13 08:01 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	25yearsmlc	05/16/13 06:09 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	25yearsmlc	05/16/13 06:46 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	kat727	05/16/13 11:47 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	kml	05/16/13 06:55 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	05/17/13 08:02 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	05/17/13 08:03 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	05/21/13 08:26 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	05/29/13 05:05 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	06/04/13 04:17 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	Valeska19	06/04/13 05:38 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	~ kd ~	06/04/13 05:43 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	gunny	06/04/13 06:53 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	25yearsmlc	06/04/13 11:34 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	25yearsmlc	06/04/13 11:38 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	06/05/13 02:14 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	06/08/13 12:04 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	~ kd ~	06/08/13 12:14 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	kat727	06/08/13 12:38 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	25yearsmlc	06/08/13 08:14 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	Valeska19	06/09/13 07:49 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	SunFunOne	06/09/13 11:51 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	gunny	06/11/13 05:30 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	06/12/13 03:26 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	~ kd ~	06/12/13 05:12 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	Rick1963	06/12/13 12:03 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	mkultra	06/12/13 02:22 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	07/01/13 04:54 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	gunny	07/02/13 05:23 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	Underdog	07/02/13 08:33 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	paige40	07/04/13 05:18 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	BeingMe	07/09/13 01:09 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	07/14/13 03:46 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	07/15/13 05:38 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	07/17/13 04:11 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	07/18/13 06:12 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	07/23/13 07:21 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	subguy	07/24/13 12:21 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	07/31/13 06:53 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	Valeska19	08/01/13 03:35 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	08/07/13 06:13 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	08/16/13 06:24 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	Valeska19	08/17/13 03:51 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	08/18/13 02:49 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	08/19/13 02:14 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	WenikiTiki	08/19/13 03:45 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	08/28/13 04:45 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	09/10/13 05:19 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	09/18/13 09:18 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	Valeska19	09/20/13 01:50 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	09/23/13 07:09 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	09/24/13 05:20 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	Underdog	09/26/13 12:50 AM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	JustStunned	09/26/13 04:55 PM
Re: Hanging out, down the street	Underdog	09/26/13 05:24 PM

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