I certainly think it would be difficult to be friends in my sitch. W has ruined chance of that. Any friendship would be superficial and phony, so 'friendly' would be the most it could be. Even that would be a loooong way off....and that has been her choosing.

M17 yrs.
me49
xW47
d15
d11

BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out)
Therapy 9 months (tried 2)
BD2- May/12(sep)
Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50
Sold home - Aug/13
Court #2 - Dec/13
Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again
We settled.