JP787, Do not bring this up to your wife again. The only the thing I would say to her would be to ask whatever she is most comfortable doing. Changing password or getting own line. I might not even say that. Maybe just stick with what you have already agreed to do. You are right! You have no control who or what she texting or doing. Trust me, in a few days when you can't look it will begging to feel much better anyways. You don't want to snoop. It makes you feel terrible inside and does absolutely nothing positive in the end. I know from personal experience. It was much easier to get out and GAL and keep a PMA when I stopped snooping. It's gonna be tough for a few days, but I promise it will be one of the best things you've done in your sitch so far
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it