Need a hand here... Some venting with questions. I gave W password for cell phone bill as she felt that I was monitoring her and she couldn't handle that. I was and it was wrong. My fears, she had an EA and sexted OM and other guy and his W on cell smart phone several moths ago. She says she isnt doing that now and I can verify by looking at cell bill online. Now giving that up I feel I have given her the ability to chat/sext w/e she wants and she knows I wont know, so she can do it safely. This is killing me. The other option is she was going to get her own line and carrier, so same outcome. I am looking for reassurance that she wont do this again, but there is none... I want to tell her or ask her if she will not talk or sext them, but that would be wrong, right? I know I dont have control, but I am having a really hard time now.
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
