Got throught the anniversary and it all turned out well. Beautiful and hearfelt card, gift and dinner. I have a wonderful trustworthy and spiritual friend who knows what's been going on in my sitch. I hope many of us here are lucky to someone like that in their lives. She said to me when I was feeling resentful and down last week..."why wait for H to organise something..you do it!..be happy and joyful and make up your mind to have a good time. Your excitement will rub off on him". She was right, we had a lovely night.