Have you told OWH no more contact and blocked his number? You don't need to be in the middle of some crazy adolescent pissing match-you're pregnant and have a baby on the way.
You know some people only feel normal when there's drama involved. Back away and have as little contact as you can with H.
Boundaries are your friend.
Bug did a much better job of being direct than I did. T, I hope you really get what we are saying, treat yourself with respect. Honor yourself and your baby. They can figure their own dysfunctional crap out any screwed up way they want to, just leave you off the crazy train. Take the time to heal you deserve it.
You can not change your past, but you can ruin a perfectly good present by worrying about the future.
