The other part is something I can't really enforce or know its happening, but something I want him to know.
Do you think he doesn't know? What would be different in his actions if he did know your boundary? I don't think it hurts to state a boundary you will enforce. But in my experience an MLCr doesn't understand the meaning behind words or for that matter, anything a normal person would understand. Kind of like a two-year old.
So I'm curious what telling him does? Don't get me wrong, I'm all for clear communication in a normal relationship. And if it makes you feel better to say it to him, I don't see a problem with firmly setting and enforcing boundaries. I'm just trying to understand your expectations of the transaction.
Make sense?
Peace, AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
