Originally Posted By: SemperFi00
PM, also noticed that your sitch involves multiple B dates. Anything you have noticed that triggered them?

My sitch also has multiple B dates and not quite sure what drives that. I started Db'ing late in my process and I think that there has only been 1 since then but it was about 3-4 weeks ago.

Stay strong!


BD#1: "You need to move out. ILYBINILWY"
BD#2: "I have feelings for someone else and that has been going on since before BD#1."
BD#3: W and OM were caught communicating again after telling their spouses they would be working on their M's.
BD#4: "I have to move forward with D"

I didn't start DB'ing until 13 months in...after the 4th BD.

Thanks for checking in!


M:12y - BD:12/11 - D:6/13 - 4Ds

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