Whatever the reason you began to post, I am grateful for your insight and common sense, among other things. Anger, yes. Most of the time, I do a whiz-bang job of being A1OK. Saturday nights and Sundays, I want to bite his neck and drink him dry. ( Just a metaphor, don't call the swat teams)I know it is probably due to having more time on my hands to just let my mind wander, but i sure wish it would find different territory. I guess a part of my is worried that his reaching out to kids may be a prelude to reaching out to me, and then again, hoping he will. Slap me Silly


ME: 54
Him: 51
M: 20 years T: 21 years
OW/New wife: 36
Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36)
Bomb: March 4, 2010
He Filed: April 28, 2010
I Contested: May 1, 2010
Standing Down: 11/24/10
Divorced : 05/04/2011