I think it would help me if I could follow your and Snodderly's example and used what I know and have been through to help someone else, thereby helping myself, but I often feel so angry or confused, and I don't want that to come through in my postings to others.

Yes, there is arthritis medication that helps, but the side effects are often worse than the problem itself. One medication broke me out in hives in all the creases of my body. Took forever to get out of my system.


ME: 54
Him: 51
M: 20 years T: 21 years
OW/New wife: 36
Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36)
Bomb: March 4, 2010
He Filed: April 28, 2010
I Contested: May 1, 2010
Standing Down: 11/24/10
Divorced : 05/04/2011