Because the old S are the spouse we fell in love with and envisioned a life of happiness with. We had hopes and dreams that are very hard to let go of. But I will say once I finally realized that no matter what I do, I can't control rather she changes and tries to be that person again, I can only control my thoughts and actions things began to be so much easier.
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it
