I do hope you know how much you help people with your attention and engagement. Your crown is filling up with stars to be sure.
H texted yesterday morning after I posted.
Told me the night before had gone well and he was "up".
I answered "sounds good"..... I guess he must have expected more?? Because after about 15 minutes I got
"So you work today?" (Eye roll here because he knows I work everyday - lol - stupid question)
I told him that I did.
He then told me about the weather there (now what, he's "making conversation" with me?)
So I told him about the weather here and "good luck today. ttyl"
Thought I did the DB thing there ok-doky.
Another text last night. Ah, luck turned her cold shoulder, now H was not doing so well.
I answered "Sorry to hear that. I got to see the XXX band!" (compliments of my wonderful job)
He asked how they were.
I babbled about the band and our impending bad weather (I AM READY FOR SPRING!! ENOUGH ALREADY!! NOBODY WANTS A WHITE EASTER - THERE ARE NO SONGS ABOUT WHITE EASTERS!!) and told him if he won ALOT of money he should give me some so I can go shopping.
Minimal response from H.
I texted I was off to bed and that he should wish me "sweet dreams".
H's final text "sweet dreams".
And that's that on the marital front.
I am not planning a shopping spree anytime soon
D18 surfaced a little sheepishly. Told me, AGAIN, how she's ready to start being responsible and "wants to start her life".
I told that was good news but that she would be doing it without the benefit of my car.
Off I go, into the wild fast food yonder.
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.
