H is at his best taking the kids on outings. I think I should concentrate on his good points. Also, he would happily wake up in the middle of the night to drive them anywhere. I think I've mentioned this before. I spend so much time being critical of H that it is worth mentioning some positives.
Awesome mind set!! If we concentrate on the negatives that's what we will always see. Your a DB'ing queen.
You can not change your past, but you can ruin a perfectly good present by worrying about the future.