""Bruce isn't a bad guy in the sense mean, but he always wants to be right, is selfish and never really cared for me or Brucie. Now he claims he wants Brucie but that is not his real character.""
Trust me, this is NOT your W's point of view.
You writing this and saying that it's how your W feels, shows how little you understand her. She left you and DOES see you as the mean and bad guy. She feels you are selfish and never really cared for her and STILL is the selfish and mean guy and WILL NOT change.
Why do you think she refuses to even see you? As far as I can tell, no one I've come across on these boards for as long as I have, has had a spouse that didn't have ANY face to face confrontation with the LBS. Your W is done because she (and others here) see that you haven't changed from the selfish, self-righteous man you've become.
Last time I checked, there was only ONE man who could walk on water, and I'm sorry to say that it wasn't you.
It's why many people, including 25, have mentioned that they've given up on you. Because you don't change. It's why your W hasn't come back.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
