I don't want to be friends w H. I can be friendly but not friends. It won't help me detach...this I know about me now. Maybe down the line- IDK.
Hi turtle, For what it's worth, (about 2 cents) I'm on board with this.
If my wife fully bails on me, I will no longer be a friend. Not to hurt her, but to protect me. And since we have no kids, it will be quite easy to do this.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
