Another dollar in my one-man show

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But Bruce out of all of the stories here, mine included, I think you are one of the people that has to AGREE with her point of view, not just acknowledge it. You said you were never there for her, and didnt hslp with baby stuff. Thats huge Bruce. Im not trying to beat you up. There is nothing you can do to change what has already happened.


But I think you would be well served to start realizing that you left her to do everything on her own in one of the most critical times in a womans life..the birth of their first baby. You needed to be there for her, to help her, to be by her side, to change diapers, to stay up all night with her when the baby is sick or isnt sleeping well, to fall asleep with your baby kn your shoulder in the rocking chair so that your wife can get a few hours of horizontal time in bed. Dont minimize this! It will not help you get her back because she will always he able to see that you still think you did nothing wrong.

I did a of that, and more for my wife. But I messed up on something different. As much as we dont agree with hiw they are handling their issues, we must agree with the fact that some of their complaints are true. Its the only hope you have to piece your family back together.

You can be that guy. It is in you, somewhere. And when you find that person, you will cherish the tims with your son and it will show on you. And then maybe your wife will soften. You have heard the ladies on here tell you and all of us men lbs that a woman finds it extremely attractive when a man is a good fathed. I mean truely good, not just to look good to her. She wants a father for her baby.....dont think for one second that a woman doesnt want the father of her child to be a good daddy, and a good husband. She wants that more than yiu know! She just doesnt think you are capable....prove her wrong Bruce.