Thanks for responding, TVS. I did go out with a friend, and she allowed me to vent my frustrations. Poor her, but she has the same situation, so we vented to each other.

You know, while my "dear" H has been traveling the world, doing great things with his career, even leaving me for weeks on end during my cancer situation (at a time, I really really needed him), I was here in the house, that I didn't want. Stuck here because of my D20 (she will never know this, but she has told me that she feels she never had a real dad) ... I wish he could've spent a couple of years like that. It would've driven him crazy. Here I am, almost 8 years later, and I have had enough. He has finally driven me to the edge, and I want out ... now.


Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
D35,S/D twins28,D22
EA4/04 End? Who knows?
"Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim