New to all this!

[Stipple]

I've got a couple of questions on how to respond to some comments that H makes.

As I've said before, H plans on travelling overseas in 2-3 years time. Every so often he makes the comment that he is still going overseas, nothing has changed, even though we are planning ahead with our business.

Also, H frequently says he feels guilty for hurting me so badly. ( I did a lot of crying in the first week or so after H said he was leaving, I tend to have a few tears when he's not around now)

How do I respond to these remarks? He will often give me a hug around the time he is saying them too!

Confused!!!!