Great thread!

And I have to say, I'm always amazed at the people that stay and help and continue to help. Denver, 25, Sandi, and many others.

I remember how lost I was and how this site and the support of others helped me through everything. And to see that people stay and assist and help despite their busy lives is inspiring.

I have looked in from time to time. I've read and felt for all the people suffering through what I know to be one of the most devastating and debilitating things one can endure.

All I can say is keep on going until YOU attain happiness. Whatever that means. Because it's out there once YOU take control of your own life. Your own destiny. Your own happiness.

Good luck!


M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14
EA - July 2010
NC w/EA - Nov 2010
Piecing - Jan 2011
I ask for div - Jan 2012
Div papers filed - Mar 2012
I move out - July 2012
Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012