SM- actually it's not really even the sex that bothers me so much. I am someone that can see it as a fun act. I have really had no hang ups about it since finding out, I just use protection. It's that I let myself get emotional. Ack!!
It's seems exactly like a text my H would send. Really it more ego, let's piss this guy off so he'll fight me, than i am in love with OW. Plus, her X is in a new R. They are done, hes just bewly sober & pissed!! I know it sounds weird, but my H is in a really dark place. When we were still drinking he would purposely pick fights with guys in bars. Even today he was marshaling the parade & got into a few verbal altercations. Nothing crazy, but I know him well.
M: 9 yrs T: 13 yrs H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs Dbing 12/12 S 1/13 7/13 H moved back in basement. 8/13 #3 born 10/13 still cheating 10/13 He moves across country, I file for D
