Wife is still cool to me, so I'm continuing to give her space. She seems to be wallowing in and out of a mild depression. No fighting/spewing, but no connecting.
Thanks for sharing FY. I know this feeling of coolness and no connecting. It hurts. What my W has indicated is that she didn't feel enough emotional connection in our M. Yet, since our sitch began I feel our connection and closeness has descended and this is hard to take. Feel like my W is making no effort to turn this around. As I've seen stated on this forum I guess us LBSers need to do the heavy lifting.
Also, feel like we are simply friendly neighbors at this point.
Just been really down more than not in the last couple weeks. Feel like I'm going through the grieving of the loss of my best friend and partner. That feeling has really hit me hard recently.
Happy I have some friends to turn to and actually couple of friends that are periodically checking on me. So keeps me going.
