I'm in a cold medicine stupor, so forgive me if I'm not my usual self
Sorry you had that encounter with your H. I know how infuriating they can be. It's all " me me me" with them, they have such a hard time showing any empathy for others (especially their spouses!)
Don't be mad at yourself. Good, he can shut his stupid phone off. Less aggravation for you.
Just because he knows you're at home, doesn't mean you need to be available to him. I say definitely do not answer next time he calls, and wait awhile before you respond to a text.
Please do something nice or special for yourself. Maybe call a good friend and go out for a bit. I vote to go and get dessert somewhere!
Thinking of you
Bomb January 2012 - doesn't feel the same about me
~ "There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance."