Thought it would just happen in a city court. No need for either of us to be there.
But L rang me at last moment to say someone needed to lodge my response to stbx's application (he had a number of incorrect details in it, like date of separation - a full 12 months before BD - and he claimed that he'd been paying me a regular sum of money for CS).
L said either him or me, so to save money, I said I'd do it.
Now I've got to front up at the D hearing. I can get through it... but i had sort of set my mind on it at least being done out of sight, as it were.
Now I've got to go and hear the final pronouncement. More daggers to my heart. It's almost stone, but not yet completely immune to pain.
In the meantime, got a call from the finance co that stbx leases our car from. He has defaulted on monthly payment and they are chasing me as guarantor. JOY.
Last week, I got a call from debt collectors saying he had defaulted on a payment arrangement for another debt to do with repairs to our cars.
And S14's school sent a letter showing that stbx still owes around $15K in fees.
Interesting timing, as the legal fees are just about to start for him.
