Question. Do you still hug/touch her when you see her?
That's interesting. one of my W's biggest complaints over the years was lack of hugging and affection. We had pretty much got to the point of not touching each other very often, maybe a hug here or a kiss there, but not all that often.
After BD, our MC suggested we try to be very nice to each other for a period of time. I think she was using the idea of fake it until you make it. That worked for about 5 days, without my wife ever really being on board. towards the end of the first week after BD, I tried some hugs and pecks on the cheek. While she didn't pull away, she also didn't really reciprocate. The last time I hugged her, I said "COME HERE and gave her a big smile and a warm hug when she was leaving. She responded with, "you really need to stop". I have't laid a finger on her since.....
I would really like to hear what others think about this. NOBODY has suggested anything like this before.
