Not at all, I would say the vast majority of the good reconciliation stories you read here happened only after the LBS completely dropped the rope and moved on. It seems the best ingredient for getting back together is no longer caring if you do or not because you are good either way
Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015
