ok well i had to send a text to W about the car payment again she said was paid and is not!! Got no reply so i sent an email to her. I also told her to use the money in the joint account to help out. but she has been so stubborn that she does not.

Also the talk i had with my DB Coach was kinda odd and interesting. With all the updated things that have happened or not happened. She said she is at a loss. all the things we talked about and were told to try should have got some response but we always seem to get nothing. so she feels at this point that maybe we should just do nothing at all no contact. Hope is that at some point she will contact me for something.

So after today I will cut off all contact to her. but i have a question how do i deal with the car payment. it is in both our names and it is messing my credit up..... do i still contact her when i get the late notice?