Hi bustin, thanks for dropping in. I am doing pretty good these days. Once I truly realized that my wife is in a crisis and her actions are about her feelings not so much an indicator of who I am. I will continue to try and be a better me and this will be a lifelong journey. Funny how I would work to make myself a better employee by reading tech. manuals and brushing up on my electronic knowledge but when it came to me or my marriage I for some reason thought it would all just work out (as if magical forces were at play). Hoping the marriage ferries would come and sprinkle happy dust on us lol.
Tomorrow is our 23rd anniversary and... that typical thought is should I or should I not acknowledge it. I am leaning towards a short text along the lines of "I hope you have a nice day", thats it, told you it was short. Anyway, thoughts on this is appreciated.
You can not change your past, but you can ruin a perfectly good present by worrying about the future.
