Bea, I'm right there with you! You've explained things very well. I do understand what you are talking about because I experienced it so long ago.
It's like I've mentioned many times...we, the lbs, are the ones that will ultimately determined whether a reconcillation will take place or not at the end of the mlcer's crisis. Some will reconcile, others will have moved on and are content being single, and others will have remarried, etc.
Bea, keep those thoughts coming!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
