Hi, SP,
I am somewhere near where you are...I feel myself fighting a losing battle w M. The fight for myself is starting to win me back.

My H, too, has been moving in the same direction since BD--away from me & our M, toward OW. He is in a long-term EA, but I've been convinced that if it turns physical, we are done.

But, you are right, time will tell. One day at a time!

M- 18 T-21
S-14,11 & 10
BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA)
H moved out 11-3-2012
10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life.
11-25-13 Jointly filed.