I think if you wait until the last possible day you are just antagonizing her and creating angst. Act as if it doesn't bother you and get it done. Ironically the best thing you can do right now is not care too much about the present -- take a longer term view.
Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015
