WAH spent time with D15 alone this afternoon. First time since last summer! She's seen him a rarely and only with D17. He picked her up after school and was waiting in front of the junior high... she is in high school this year. But she just got home and seemed to have a good time. No comments or questions from me, no pressure to D15. WAH just drops her off in driveway, looked like he was starting to get out of car but seeing I was home & opened the door he just waved and walked back to his car.
OKAY SO, I am ticked for D15 sake the her dad forgot where she went to school. But D15 and I talked and I was passing it off as a brain fart (which it probably was, me enabling his R again?). I think it's a really big step for in their relationship to have a 'normal' few hours together. Especially with his crying phone call and texting that he was so torn up about their relationship.
In light of praising the 1%, would it be good to send him a text saying 'd15 seemed to have a good time. glad you guys connected'. BUT that seems kind of stupid because, he's their father and they should having been connecting all this time. And I don't want to rub it in his face.
Any opinions?
PS I know I was totally wallowing in previous journal post. Back on the PMA train...
But she just got home and seemed to have a good time. No comments or questions from me, no pressure to D15. WAH just drops her off in driveway, looked like he was starting to get out of car but seeing I was home & opened the door he just waved and walked back to his car.