Maybe you could step back enough to get a clearer picture of the dynamics, and then re-assess.
Maybe that means that you use the first part of the quote ? With a different ending ?
I THINK ...all I can do is get a third party involved so I can step aside and say, "I need for you all to find a way through this , and I trust all of you to get through this"
I like this^^^ both in terms of wording and in terms of how I'm going to frame it in my head. (Mach, I chose a lovely blue, just for YOU).
Yet I see you banging your head against the wall trying to fix everything. And that can't be healthy for you mentally. I'm beginning to feel this ^^ is not something I want to do much more. I do A LOT of counselling in my "real life" and it felt natural to do here...
but you know, it's not fun. IT's not warm & fuzzy. It's draining and worse, it is affecting MY r with my h, and my r's with my son.
My d's? Not so much yet. Can't say why.
But I look forward to the "hand off" next week...if not sooner.
Thanks.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
