Well tonight I was given next weeks schedule-she will be staying with her "friend" on Monday and tue night. I held back and replied "ok" . I went into the other room and did deep breathing exercises. Then came out and had a good night with my wife and daughter.
My wife offered to go with my parents to breakfast on Sunday and then to my friends with me later that afternoon- following the advice here all I did was offer yesterday. We will see what actually happens.
She slipped up and called me "honey" tonight. As soon as I began to read my daughter stories my wife disappeared into her room and shut the door-it's an hour later and silence. I'm trying to detach and it still hurts-ALL of my eggs are in the DB basket and all of you are all I have
I'm out of the house with friends tomorrow working on my big project...two weeks to go before this monster is off my shoulders- Then I'm thinking hobby.......perhaps martial arts? Isit ok to start at 37? LOL
ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13
