Yup. Because you have spent a heck of a long time saying his codices are his and mine are mine.

Now there are two....

So, why is your way any better? Or for that matter his? Lol. What I am saying I think is you are right, you have been Captain for a long time and it is not easy to share command again. Maybe spending the night is the most he can give right now.

My husband equated the old Ruby with a master smacking its dog on the head with a newspaper every time it opened its mouth. He said it is hard getting used to new Ruby. He keeps expecting to be smacked. Maybe That's the reason for the slow and Very cautious approach, he is expecting the same patterns to emerge and just needs time to know they won't.

Glad your son is better smile. ((())). And thanks for support smile