I don't think he has my interests at heart at all...That's very clear. When I spoke with him today (90 min call) he refused to accept the language about the support--even though my L said this language was already too giving and he didn't recommend it. He wanted to add all sorts of limits and conditions to the support. So I did it bc when I tried to explain that this wasn't what the law said, he said he was going to trial. He was behaving like a bully. After I agreed to add the wording he wanted, he seemed to calm down some.
I agreed to trade in some of the furniture for the xtra annual amount I was talking about, but it's a small percentage.
I don't know. Going to trial will cost 10K more and a lot more time. I want this to end. He's going away with that woman this weekend, spending our money on her. If we drag this along, he'll continue spending it all. I thought about scheduling another meeting with my L next week. He'll tell me I'm making a big mistake. I want peace. Don't want to go to court. I wonder if the L just wants to make more money and the financial outcome won't be much different.
I know it's my decision, but it's a tough one. I might regret being so giving when he doesn't even appreciate it. He thinks he's being generous. Ha! I always thought he was smart, but he isn't. He's good with numbers but he's very close minded, and always thinks he knows it all and he's right. Funny that he always criticized me for being "inflexible." This was a reflection of his own self...
