25 I always get so much out of your posts. Thank you. It truly is about being who you want to be. I'm taking that to heart. My H also has a hero job and really gets off of the image of being noble and honorable. I appreciate what you write about your brothers.
SP, I understand your frustration with limbo. I'm usually one who makes things happen like yesterday. But one of the (few) things I feel good about in this sitch is that I've not pushed WAH to make any direct decisions. Honestly, a lot of days it feels like I'm at his mercy, but then the other days it feels like I'm being cautious and pragmatic. Putting her on the spot about anything may feel like forcing her hand to make a decision. Sorry you had to hear those harsh words from her. But I think it's a good thing that she's willing to be open and communicate. I don't get anything from my WAH so, as 25 would say, that's progress.
