BombOctober 2012- OW 11/28/12 -H still denies Separated 11/29/12 Own place 12/12/12 Confessed OW/EA/PA 2/2/13 Oct 2013 - I knew I was done Jan 2014 - Anticipating the rest of my life
W was in NO for work trip and not up to it last Friday when she returned and we moved everything out of the house saturday which interfered as well.
Since my daughter is home for SB, I suggested that we do something with her this week but it appears that will not happen as she says she already has plans tonight and we still have to get all the clutter out of the house this Saturday.
I think I will just back off at this point - too much going on it seems.
I was thinking about you recently and wondering how you were doing. The last time I checked in, your H was seeing a counselor and you were seeing some small amount of movement on his behalf. Is that still continuing, or has he gone back to no counselor and no changes?
Do you still feel attracted to him? It feels to me like if he would get over himself, you'd still be willing to give it a shot, and if that's the case I would think attraction would be at the root of your willingness to continue.
What's the latest?
Accuray
Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015