It has only been 4 weeks since the bomb was dropped and w is getting colder and colder. I have only had a few slip-ups and she gets sooo angry with me. I don't get angry back I just take it and validate. What I just don't get is that before the bomb she was loving and since then she is looking for reasons to be mad at me. She is the one who is getting what she wants with the D why be angry with me now?
Do these things ever resolve themselves? Or is it really more about me? If feels like giving up hope might be my first step towards recovery.
Me-45 W-44 T-7 years M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated) Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)