Thanks SA for your comments.

I must admit that when I wrote what I did I was just feeling a little sorry for myself. It's not very productive but sometimes I think that it helps every one just to vent. (Sometimes I vent into my diary, to my brother or here. Here got the short straw this time.)

I still haven't received DB but what I have gleaned from here I have put into practice and I think that I have already seen positive results after a short few days. (My wife isn't going out so much, isn't coming back so late and last night after getting home just after 11 she climbed into bed with me, we sleep apart, and apologized for not coming back sooner. Tonight she is out again but has left a note stating that she won't be long. I see this as progress and that's all I can hope for.)


Me: 42 W: 40
M: 18 T: 20
D13 D10 S7
BD: 8/2012
Still living together