Cadet, I agree totally w/you about the "script". It's almost word for word and the behavior is identical in a majority of the situations when they begin to wake up.
The reconnection works backwards of the way the crisis started in each and every case that I have observed. When spouses or companions can finally detach and step back from the situations that they have been dealt, they can see how the reconnection works in the "opposite" scenario.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
