I'll give it some thoughts. My original plan was to confront her in a way she can't deny it. I was going to be at that same spot where she stops and find out exactly what's going on.
At this point in my sitch, I'm ready to file for D if her interactions with OM is still going. I just need that confirmation so that I can close the door without any regrets. And yes this behavior is no longer acceptable to me.
Newman
me40; W43 M18; T~20 D18; S13 & S3 bomb 5/9/11 EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM
Separated 4/1/14
"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.