Help & Advice needed please Thread 2

[Intact]

Intact, you have been through alot in a very short amount of time. You do need time to grieve. Try to somehow find time for this.

As they say, your W is in a fog. Of course that is what she is going to say. She has to justify her actions to not only you but to herself. Who knows if that is actually true.

You are the only one that knows if you want to save your M. But in the whole scheme of things, you haven't been in your sitch for very long.

Try to keep your head above water. Be there for your S. And take care of yourself.

Thank you Grizz, I really appreciate your kind words and advice.

The truth is, I really do want to save my marriage. Perhaps my W is in a fog - if she is and it eventually lifts I want to be a different person. Not just for her, but for myself and my Son.