Hi Tori,

I second what the others are saying. He could easily be trying to appeal to your desire for things to be non-adversarial. I'm not sure I trust him to have your best interests at heart.

Take your time and look after yourself.

Big hug

Me: 51
H: 52
T: 23 yrs
M: 19 yrs
S18, D16, S14 (special needs)
PA: 2003/2004
Piecing: 2004 on
Suspect H had EA: 8/2012-12/2012