Pretty deep stuff. Will post on it more in coming weeks as I work through it. Don't think this will be a quick or easy one to work through...
Agreed...this one was a tough pill to swallow. Not only can it be a painful thing to work thru, the habit is difficult. Even after I thought I'd worked thru the issue, I still tried to control the sitch to limit my pain. I thought I was accepting, but really I was just giving ground while holding on by my fingertips with all my strength. It's hard to let go.