We also talked about the conflict, as I see it, between giving a WAW space and my needing to discuss who sleeps where for my self esteem, which seems to encroach on W's space. C thought my self esteem was more important than W's 'space'. W may also see me taking this up as being tough on myself, which is something she wants, and fighting back.
Just because she may decide to want to not sleep with me now doesn't mean this can't change.
What do I do though, if when I bring up how lonely and separated I feel sleeping downstairs, she says "I don't care"? W often reacts emotionally and has trouble continuing rational discussion. Funny - we are opposites that way - she mostly emotional and then maybe rational, me rational and then maybe emotional.
Luke
M58, xW54 S22, D18 M 1984, D 2016 Living a new life.
