I pondered your mom's sitch some more. I recall she has a chronic pain condition. So I am worried she's looking for a line to say, to excuse herself from trying anymore.
I hope you/she or your sister go see a doctor and get a real insight into what the heck is going on and if there's a relatioinship between this and her underlying condition...
as you know, my mom's got her stuff going on, and the "sandwich" generation phrase, is really hitting home for me these days.
It's tough to GAL & have a PMA, while you keep looking over your shoulder to make sure your mom's still there, and okay.
((( )))
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