So sorry about your mom...I know she has real medical problems.
I can't help but make ONE tiny comment about cancer in the uterus, and what your mom thinks she heard about the worst case, and or how there's "nothing they can do IF, this and not that" ETC.
First, If I recall correctly, your mom does NOT like to hear certain medical things nor does she go out of her way to "bother with" her health care by asking questions, researching her own conditions, or seeking out new treatments (or any??).
Do you wonder if She may even prefer this so she can just give up or is looking for an excuse?? No offense meant!!!
ANYHOW whatever, here's my one tiny comment...
The uterus is a removable/disposable organ we CAN and DO live without. If one were to choose an organ to have cancer in, that might be the best one...
Just ask my mom, b/c she had uterine cancer (2 forms of it, at age 70) and so she got a hysterectomy...in 1991.
She's still around. So is my sister, whom you met. She had scar tissue and fibroids bothering her a lot, there were some lining changes that MIGHT have been pre cancerous, so she had a hysterectomy too.... 7 years ago. There are options.
As my late father said when He was diagnosed with cancer in his liver and both kidneys, "why couldn't I have cancer in one of the organs I can throw away, like your mother did? Then none of these biopsies would matter." Sweetie, You definitely need more/better information.
((( hugs )))
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