I've had two sessions with my DB coach. During my last conversation with them, they noted that my wife communicates to me where she is going when she leaves the house. She shares her calendar with me via the cloud. The last time she was out with her friends, she told me where she was going and texted me to let me know when she was on her way home. She has done that a few times within the last few weeks. If she is away from home, she will text me letting me know she is on her way. The last time she did this, I texted her back a "thank you" for letting me know.
Do you think that comes across as me wanting to "monitor" or "control"? Do you think it is good that I give her positive feedback for this?
Although she does this, she is still emotionally distant.
