Is it wrong of me to feel a little "I told you so" about W. I mention to her a while back, that "She could not save a dime". she has used up all her money, has no more retirement funds. now she wants more money from me.
the more you say bitter statements, the happier she'll be to flee your presence. ANd she might feel "entitled" to more money b/c people get weird when they are angry.
As for you insulting her now about not saving a dime, I fail to see the point of the comment
Tell me HAVE YOU READ THE BOOKS THAT FORM THE BASIS OF THIS SOLUTION BASED SITE?
We are here trying to help people save their marriages IF they can.
Mostly what I see you doing is complaining about her and venting. Venting would be fine if it made you feel better.
But I think it's doing 2 negative thigns instead. 1) You are staying stuck in your anger
and 2)
you are NOT working on the only person you can control in this situation...YOU
so work on you. become a man only a fool would leave...then, no matter what SHE does or says, you'll be better off.
But the path you are on now is just a litany of grievances that possibly got you here in the first place.
Can you tell me how forgiveness was modelled in your childdhood?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
