trying to get her back

[25yearsmlc]

Edward, I'll read your whole thread I promise..

But for now I want to reply to THIS post of yours.

If W was so ADAMANT about a divorce then why has she not filed, she has told me numerous time that is what she wanted,
I wanta what is the hold up!


Why don't you corner her up against the wall and make her sign some papers
"or else'!! Oh wait, you wanted to SAVE the marriage...now you're angry she has not filed for divorce.

Be careful what you wish for. Meanwhile I'd pray she is having second thoughts OR at least thinks she can wait...which means you have the gift of TIME.


I am thinking that I will not get her back,

so why not beat her to the punch?


and i am starting to feel that maybe I do not want the her back, and I need to change my title. She has already changed her name,

you sound very angry. I get that. Of course you are. You're very hurt.

But since this is a SOLUTION based site, let me ask you 2 questions.

How is being angry, going to help you win your w back?

When she sees your anger and bitterness, don't you think she feels BETTER about her choice to leave?

Remember, we want to undermine their negative images of us, w/positives...

do not add fuel to her "leaving h" fire. Keep the road home, paved & smooth.